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A |
Initiating
the Process |
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| A-1 |
What is Mediation |
page A-1 |
| A-2 |
The Stages of Mediation |
page A-4 |
| A-3 |
*Application Form for
Mediation |
page A-5 |
| A-4 |
*Personal Data and Information
Form |
page A-7 |
| A-5 |
First Session Outline |
page A-9 |
| A-6 |
*Confidentiality Form |
page A-13 |
| A-7 |
"Protecting Confidentiality in
Mediation," David A. Hoffman |
page A-14 |
| A-8 |
*Pre-Divorce Mediation
Agreement |
page A-16 |
| A-9 |
Public Sector Mediation |
page A-19 |
| A-10 |
Paul Bohannon, "The Six
Dimensions of Divorce" |
page A-21 |
| A-11 |
Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, The
Stages of Grieving |
page A-22 |
| A-12 |
John Bowlby, Attachment |
page A-23 |
| A-13 |
The Divorce Time-Line |
page A-24 |
| A-14 |
The Wheel of Relationships |
page A-25 |
| A-15 |
Divorce Mediation Bibliography |
page A-26 |
| A-16 |
Key Questions Regarding a
Mediation Privilege Statute |
page A-28 |
| A-17 |
"Confidential, More or Less," by
Christopher Honeyman |
page A-29 |
| A-18 |
Intake |
page A-31 |
| A-19 |
Stages of the Mediation
Process |
page A-33 |
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B |
Conflict
and Paradigm |
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| B-1 |
Needs-Based Negotiation (based on Getting
to Yes) |
page B-1 |
| B-2 |
Caucus |
page B-2 |
| B-3 |
Helpful Phrases in Mediation |
page B-3 |
| B-4 |
Transformative Mediation |
page B-4 |
| B-5 |
Baruch Bush & Joseph Folger, The
Promise of Mediation |
page B-5 |
| B-6 |
Empowerment and Recognition |
page B-6 |
| B-7 |
Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Chart |
page B-7 |
| B-8 |
Why Send To Lawyers, and What
Do We Say When We do? |
page B-8 |
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C |
Domestic
Violence |
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| C-1 |
Bibliography |
page 1 |
| C-2 |
Child Abuse |
page 2 |
| C-3 |
Domestic Violence and
Mediation |
page 9 |
| C-4 |
Mediation & Spouse Abuse
Guidelines |
page 14 |
| C-5 |
No Violence Contract |
page15 |
| C-6 |
Empowering Interventions with
Battered Women |
page 16 |
| C-7 |
AFM Task Force Draft Report |
page 21 |
| C-8 |
Screening: Follow-Up
Questionnaire |
page 23 |
| C-9 |
A
Clinical Typology of Interparental Violence in Disputed-Custody Divorces, by
Janet Johnston and Linda Campbell |
page 24 |
| C-10 |
Summary
of Janet Johnston's Research on Profiles of Violence in Divorcing Families
Disputing Custody |
page 29 |
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"High-Conflict and Violent Divorcing Families: Findings on
Children's Adjustment and Proposed Guidelines for the Resolution of
Disputed Custody and Visitation" by Janet Johnston |
page 33 |
| C-12 |
"Guidelines for Family Court Services Intervention When
There Are Allegations of Domestic Violence," Mary Duryee |
page 46 |
| C-13 |
Ontario
Association for Family Mediation: Standards for Assessing Whether Mediation May
be Appropriate in Families with Histories of Violence |
page 51 |
| C-14 |
Maine Court Mediation Service
Domestic Violence Policies |
page 52 |
| C-15 |
Tolman
Screening Model by Richard Tolman |
page 56 |
| C-16 |
Dangerousness Assessment by
Barbara Hunt |
page 59 |
| C-17 |
Professor Desmond Ellis on
Domestic Violence |
page 62 |
| C-18 |
"Special
Section: Domestic Violence," Journal
of Marital & Family Therapy, Vol. 25,
#3 (July, 1999), 275-364 |
page 63 |
| C-19 |
Michele Bograd, "Battering and
Couples Therapy: Universal Screening and Selection of Treatment
Modality," JMFT, Vol. 25, #3 (July, 1999), 291-312 |
page 64 |
| C-20 |
Virginia Goldner, "Morality and
Multiplicity: Perspective on the Treatment of Violence in Intimate Life,"
JMFT, Vol. 25, #3 (July, 1999), 325-336 |
page 86 |
| C-21 |
Sara Berns, Neil Jacobson, John Gottman,
"Demand/Withdraw Interaction Patterns Between Different Types
of Batterers and Their Spouses," JMFT, Vol. 25, #3 (July 1999), 337-348 |
page 98 |
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F |
Parenting
and Family Systems |
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| F-1 |
*"Mom's House/Dad's House"
Chart |
page F-1 |
| F-2 |
*Parenting Checklist |
page F-2 |
| F-3 |
Framing Statements |
page F-4 |
| F-4 |
*Bibliography on Adults,
Children and Divorce |
page F-5 |
| F-5 |
Books for Children
Experiencing Divorce |
page F-13 |
| F-6 |
Joint Custody Bibliography |
page F-17 |
| F-7 |
*Mom's House/Dad's House
Order Form |
page F-20 |
| F-8 |
Developmental Guidelines for
Residence and Visitation Arrangements |
page F-21 |
| F-9 |
*Calendar for Flipchart |
page F-24 |
| F-10 |
Family Systems |
page F-25 |
| F-11 |
Triangles |
page F-26 |
| F-12 |
Extended Overnights by Infants with the Other Parent
Are O.K.,” by Joan Kelly & Michael Lamb |
page F-27 |
| F-13 |
Child Support Checklist |
page F-28a |
| F-14 |
Age Appropriate Parenting Plans, Ohio Task Force on
Family Law and Children |
page F-28b |
| F-15 |
"Using Child Development Research to Make
Appropriate Custody and Access Decisions for Young Children" |
page F-57 |
| F-16 |
"Children's Adjustment in
Conflicted Marriage and Divorce: A Decade of Review of Research |
page F-65 |
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G |
Drafting the Memorandum of Understanding |
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| G-1 |
*Cover Letter to Attorneys |
page G-1 |
| G-2 |
Sample Child Support
Provisions |
page G-2 |
| G-3 |
Sample Memorandum of
Agreement--Schneider |
page G-17 |
| G-4 |
Sample Memorandum of Agreement--Zumeta |
page G-32 |
| G-5 |
Court Model Agreement
(Jacobson)--Schneider |
page G-44 |
| G-6 |
Court Model Agreement (Nadick)--Schneider |
page G-45 |
| G-7 |
Court Model Agreement
(Gonzales)--Schneider. |
page G-49 |
| G-8 |
Court Model Agreement (Golin)--Schneider |
page G-53 |
| G-9 |
AFM: Sample Guideline Standard
MOA |
page G-55 |
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K |
Maryland State Materials |
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| K-1 |
Domestic Relations Law:
Section 7: Grounds |
page K-1 |
| K-2 |
Domestic Relations Law:
Section 8: Property |
page K-5 |
| K-3 |
Domestic Relations Law:
Section 9: Custody |
page K-14 |
| K-4 |
Domestic Relations Law:
Section 11: Alimony |
page K-23 |
| K-5 |
Domestic Relations Law:
Section 12: Child Support |
page K-30 |
| K-6 |
Maryland Court of Appeals Rule
17 on Mediator Qualifications, Training, Application, Fees, etc. |
page K-118 |
| K-7 |
Maryland Administrative Office
of the Courts Application to be Listed for Designation as a Mediator |
page K-134 |
| K-8 |
SASI-CALC (Support Analysis
Software, Inc.) |
page K-167 |
| K-9 |
SASI-CALC: Maryland Shared
Custody Work Sheet |
page K-171 |